How to Create a Sleep Friendly Bedroom for My Child?

How to Create a Sleep Friendly Bedroom for My Child?

SLEEP FRIENDLY BEDROOM

Arranging your child’s bedroom in a way that supports sleep can not only promote a more relaxing environment to fall asleep in but also an environment that supports resettling,  should your child wake during the night. You are aiming for the bedroom to be a calm, inviting space that your child associates with sleep.  

“Let’s consider a range of strategies that can help you to create a sleep friendly bedroom for your child” 
Family reading a book together in a cozy, sleep-friendly bedroom

Make The Children’s Bedroom A Screen Free Zone

  • To create sleep friendly bedroom, aim to make the bedroom, and especially the bed, a no-screen zone, even during the day. Research shows that TV watching in the bedroom impacts young children’s sleep. The artificial blue light emitted by screens of televisions, smartphones, tablets, computers, and gaming systems promotes alertness and impacts our sleep-wake cycle or circadian rhythm.
  • Many parents find that using a nightlight emitting a red-light wavelength can support sleep by stimulating the production of the sleepy hormone, melatonin.  If your child is scared of the dark we recommend using a red night light, a lot of parents use soft glow room thermometers which have a gentle orange glow when the room is the right temperature. Try to avoid leaving the door open as this can be a fire hazard. Avoid being able to see blue lights as discussed here.

How Do I Make Sleep Friendly room for my child?

  • Set the thermostat to a slightly cooler temperature to support your toddler to feel sleepy. Aim for between 16 – 18 degrees. Breathable cotton clothing can also help with keeping cool at night.

Top Tip – put socks on your baby, under their sleep clothes, and the sleeping bag. Room temperature normally drops at around 5 am, this can wake your child as their feet suddenly get cold. Often the extra pair of socks can help with early rising.

  • Always Keep the sleep friendly bedroom quiet and consider using a white noise machine to mask outside sounds – particularly if your child has been used to this as a baby.
  • Use dark curtains or blackout blinds to block out light for ultimate sleep friendly bedroom environment.
Family with older child and baby in a Moses basket in a cozy, sleep friendly bedroom"

Sleep Friendly Bedroom Set Up For A Newborn To 1 Year Old

  • Opt for a soothing color scheme: Choose soft, calming colors like pastels or neutrals to promote a relaxing atmosphere conducive to sleep.
  • Avoid clutter and excessive decor in the nursery to minimize distractions that could disrupt sleep.
  • Use blackout curtains or shades to block out excess light during nap times and bedtime. Soft, dimmable lighting can also help create a cozy ambiance.
  • In the room, you should have a cot or Moses or a travel cot or carrycot. Use a good quality, firm, flat, and waterproof mattress covered with a cotton sheet. You will need a sleeping bag for a baby and light cellular blankets (remember to tuck those in, never have them loose in the cot with a baby).
  • Avoid using sleep pods or nests, sleepyheads, sleep positioners, hammocks, cot bumpers, pillows, duvets, loose heavy, non-breathable blankets, comforters, or soft toys for children under 1 year old. Make sure to always follow  Lullaby Trust safety recommendations! to prevent your baby from SIDS.
  • Monitor safety hazards: Regularly check the room for any potential safety hazards such as loose cords, sharp objects, or choking hazards that could pose a risk to your baby.

Sleep Friendly Bedroom For Older Child

  • Use comfortable bedding and pillows that are appropriate for the temperature of the room – don’t forget to let your child help select their bedding or make it relevant to their likes and interests.
  • The Lullaby Trust recommends no bedding until after 12 months and ideally not until the child is using a toddler bed as opposed to a cot with raised sides. In these sleep guides, you will find great techniques that will help you with transitioning from co-sleeping, transitioning to the cot, or transitioning to a toddler bed.
  • Minimise electronics: Remove electronic devices from sleep friendly bedrooms such as TVs, computers, and smartphones from the bedroom, as the blue light emitted from screens can disrupt sleep patterns. Encourage quiet activities like reading before bedtime instead.
  • Check for safety hazards: Regularly inspect the bedroom for any potential safety hazards such as loose cords, unstable furniture, or clutter that could pose a risk to your child’s safety during sleep.

How To Avoid Any Bedroom  Anxieties:

  • You can leave an item or an object that reminds your child of you to support your child to manage any sense of separation anxiety. For example, they could place one of your pyjama tops under their pillow as a reminder that you are never far away. A photo could serve a similar purpose.
  • Many children have a transitional object: a particular favorite teddy or blanket that helps them to feel secure when they are not there. This can be a great support to a child. If your child has a transitional object, encourage them to take this into the bedroom at sleep time. You can use “teddy” as a means of talking about sleep needs. For example, “Teddy has had a busy day and wants to be quiet and calm now. Can you keep Teddy company and help him drop to sleep?”

Sleep Friendly Bedroom for Older Children: What to Watch Out For:

  • Attend to any objects that cast potentially frightening shadows at night. This could leave a child frightened. You can ask your child if there is anything they want to take out of their bedroom to get a sense of what may potentially scare them.
  • If your child plays in their bedroom, involve them in tidying away toys before bed, so there is a clear separation between “playtime” and “sleep time,” thus creating a sleep-friendly bedroom environment that is calming and relaxing.
  • If your child shares their room with a sibling, ensure each child has a separate space to call their own.

    Are you in need of more personalised sleep advice tailored to your child’s needs? Reach out to me today and let me help you create the perfect sleep environment for your little one!
    Will My Nursery / Child-Care Provider Support My Little Ones Sleep?

    Will My Nursery / Child-Care Provider Support My Little Ones Sleep?

    When you have worked hard to improve your child’s sleep routine, especially if your child has had difficulty sleeping in the past, the idea of sending them to a Nursery or a Child-minder where their sleep routine may not be supported can be daunting to parents.

    When selecting a child-care facility, I always recommend looking around at least twice and at different times of the day if you’re able to as this will give you more of an idea of their routine. However, you should always speak to your child-care provider about your child’s sleep routines and your concerns. Maybe you have a special phrase that means it’s sleep-time, or perhaps a comforter that needs to be removed once they fall asleep? All these little things can affect your child’s sleep and it’s perfectly acceptable to ask them about it!

    Recently, I was asked by Purple Jay Nurseries to go to their Lambeth, London site (they also have lovely facilities in both Peckham Rye and East Dulwich) and do a presentation and question and answer style interview for the parents there all about Supporting Sleep and talking them through my gentle, holistic methods. I was so pleased not only to be asked and able to help this group of parents in person (which thanks to Covid were a novelty) but to be able to answer individual questions.

    It was also refreshing to have a nursery wanting to support their parents and little ones through what can be one of the biggest challenges of parenting. Having passed on my methods to both staff and parents, I’m confident it will help everyone get some improved sleep and more communication regarding sleep behaviours between the nursery and parents. They were so accommodating and I hope to return at some stage as I felt it not only really benefitted everyone but also built the parents confidence that the Nursery is looking after their little one’s best interests. Something every parent wants in their child-care provider!

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    How Can I Communicate Our Sleep Routine To Nursery / Child-Care?

    Absolutely make sure you communicate your sleep routine! Child-care providers will be actively looking for all the methods to help support your little one to sleep. Remember they also WANT them to sleep and be in their best mood possible for the day.

    If, like myself, you’re against the cry-it-out method, or have other ‘no no’s’ when it comes to naptime then make sure you make that clear within your handover instructions. If you’re new to your child attending child-care because of going back to work then I’d recommend looking at my Back To Work Guide, shorter than my sleep guide. This guide focuses on returning to work and how to ease this transition. Even if you aren’t returning to work there is a lot of useful information on how to start your child with a child-care provider and a handy handover template/guide.

    The best way to communicate your wishes around your child’s care is to write it down (maybe even laminate it!) and put it within your child’s belongings so that whenever the nursery are changing a nappy or in your child’s bag they will be reminded of your care instructions.

    baby sleep coach holding baby 2

    Can You Speak To My Child’s Child-Care Provider?

    Similarly to the presentation, I did at Purple Jay Nurseries, I’m available to speak to parents and/or staff regarding sleep methods that follow my gentle, holistic and family centred ethos. If your nursery would like me to do a presentation then they can contact me directly here where I can happily talk through the options with them directly.
    My sleep presentations build the confidence of parents not only with their home sleep-time routines but also with the ability of their nursery to accommodate their gentle sleep preferences to the highest standard. Discussing these strategies together can bring a new clarification on what may or may not work for a child – and also where the discrepancies might be!

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